God’s Plan for Every Man

“One of the jobs of a dad is to show their little boys and girls what a man is.”

Recently, our family laid to rest a man affectionately known as “Papoe Dean” to our great-granddaughters. He was a hardworking farmer and rancher that raised two boys. He taught them hard work through taking care of cattle, planting and harvesting crops, fixing machinery and daily chores.(Image by Daiga Ellaby on Unsplash)

One of the jobs of a dad is to show their little boys and girls what a man is. They may have other men in their lives too that help with that, like grandpas, uncles, pastors, teachers and coaches. And they may even be impacted by their favorite athletes, actors and musicians. In some cases, the examples are good, while in other cases, not so much.

Is there a place that describes what a man is, how he should live and the example he should provide his children and grandchildren? God has given us a standard for men, because He is the One who fashioned and shaped men and women. 

The story of mankind’s origin is found in the Bible through its opening pages in the book of Genesis. In chapters one through three there is found six descriptions of what it means to be a man.

1. A man walks with God. (Gen. 1-3)

2. A man and his wife together, raise their children. (Gen. 1:28)

3. A man works and provides for himself and his family. (Gen. 2:15)

4. A man takes responsibility and provides spiritual leadership. (Gen. 2:16-17)

5. A man receives the woman God has provided to be his wife. (Gen. 2:18-25)

6. A man serves and cherishes his wife. (Gen. 2:24)

When we look at this list, we find the majority of men do not live this way. Why? Because of this, “So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both were opened…” (Genesis 3:6-7).

This historical account lays out how the first deadly disease entered our world and affected the human race. It was the sickness of sin. It radically altered God’s intended plan for men. Instead, it caused men to reject God. Consequently, men began acting on selfish impulses, inherited a passive spirit in the home, became abusive and controlling, were absent in helping to raise their children and served their own interests. Sin corrupted God’s original purpose for men, flipping upside down everything He intended a man to be.

How can a man live differently, and redeem what sin destroyed? To live as God wants is impossible to do on our own. We need help outside ourselves to change us into the men we must be. That help comes from Jesus. He alone is our hope. Jesus died and rose again to save us from ourselves. He came to rescue us. Call out to Jesus to make you the man you were created to be.

A prayer for you - Lord God, I pray you will deliver men from the sin within them. Lift their eyes toward you, Jesus. May they call upon you to change them into the men you have destined them to be. In your holy name. Amen.

What I Do in Private or Public is My Business!

“Desire to be a man of integrity or a woman of honor, who lives with a clear conscience, both before other people and God.”

Every week it seems like we hear about some well-known figure’s moral carelessness coming to light. An athlete’s early morning brawl at an exclusive club. A politician’s scheme to enrich himself. A pastor’s affair with a church member. A media personality twisting the truth to further their storyline. A businessman’s complex effort to steal from his company and its investors. (Image by rohatcom68 from Pixabay) 

These types of unfortunate news stories we read about can be summed up with one word: character. Because people are not living lives of honorable character, they are winding up on the local news or in the local jail. Character matters. It has a practical impact on a person’s daily life, and sometimes we are even affected by the character of another person. The great preacher, Billy Graham, once said, “When wealth is lost, nothing is lost; when health is lost, something is lost; when character is lost, all is lost.”

Character refers to the moral traits of someone, like being honest, selfless, trustworthy and humble. Where do qualities like this come from? Our parents, teachers or coaches? Our dad and mom among others can teach us to have good character and model it for us, but it comes from a deeper source.

It is written, “God created man in his own image.” (Genesis 1:27) This means when the Creator fashioned us, He put within us some of His own likeness, which is where godly character comes from. The traits of love, kindness and patience originate from Him. However, because we are all born with a bent toward disobedience and selfishness, those traits are marred from birth. Sometimes they show up intermittently. We might love certain people, like our family or friends. We might be patient sometimes. But clearly, there are still large gaps in our character. And yes, we can be taught good character, but teaching and modeling does not go deep enough.

Having good character must focus on the heart, for that is where it springs from. Jesus said, “For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.” (Matthew 15:19) All these and more are reflections of poor character.

One might say, “It is my life. What I do in private, or public is my business.” Another might state, “I’m a Christian. I believe in God’s grace, and I know He forgives me no matter what I do.” Despite our own thoughts about character, God has His thoughts also. One day all of us will come before Him to be examined, “For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God; for it is written, ‘As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God.’ So, then each of us will give an account of himself to God.” (Romans 14:10-12) If you were to come before God this very hour, what would He see?

How do we receive godly character? It begins through the indwelling presence of the Spirit of Jesus. When you turn from your sin and place your total trust in Christ, He comes to live within you and changes your heart. Why? Because the curse of sin has damaged it and is the cause of your moral failures. But Christ came from heaven to earth, to die, be buried and rise again that your heart would be forever changed. In Christ, you become a new creation, then His Spirit begins the life-long process of shaping and molding you into a person that reflects godly character. For most people, this shaping comes through tough times. The Scripture says, “we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope.” (Rom. 5:3-4)

Desire to be a man of integrity or a woman of honor, who lives with a clear conscience, both before other people and God.   

A prayer for you – Lord Jesus, examine our ways. Let us be people who are trustworthy, dependable and humble. Create within us hearts that reflect godly character. If we are found lacking, right now produce that character within us. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

God, Don’t You Care?

“We view situations from our perspective and sometimes question God. But all-the-while Jesus is saying to us, “Look, I am here. Won’t you trust me?”

There were over 1,300 confirmed tornados last year, causing death and destruction from rural to populated areas. Medical debt is weighing down one out of every 10 Americans and leading tens of thousands to file for bankruptcy. In 2023 the federal government seized the equivalent of 381 million doses of fentanyl, and the lethal drug was responsible for over 74,000 deaths. (Image from Pixabay)

No matter if you are cleaning up after a natural disaster, trying to survive a financial crisis or are grieving a sudden death due to drugs or something else it is normal to say, “God, where are you? Don’t you care?”

Jesus’ own disciples felt this way on one occasion when they were facing certain death on the high seas. Once after a long day of ministry to people, Jesus and His disciples climbed into a boat to cross the waters. They pushed out and settled in as they rowed to their destination. Some of the disciples, due to their experience, knew how to navigate the waters well, so were at complete ease. And shortly after they were on their way, Jesus laid down and fell fast asleep.

Very soon however, the winds picked up and they found themselves in the middle of a full-blown storm. The wind speeds were high and created large waves that crashed down on their boat. As they began taking on water, the experienced seamen became fearful their lives might be lost.

Meanwhile, Jesus was unfazed, and amazingly continued in a deep sleep. His disciples, agitated and filled with fear, angrily awoke Him saying, “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?” (Mark 4:38).

Jesus then stood, looked out on the stormy sea and spoke firmly and directly to the wind and waves, “Peace! Be still!” (Mk. 4:39) And immediately the winds calmed and the waters became still. The disciples stood in amazement and looked with astonishment at each other saying, “Who then is this, that even wind and sea obey him?” (Mk. 4:41)

When the disciples woke Jesus, they had a question for Him. This time, Jesus had one for them. He pointedly asked, “Why are you so afraid? Have you still no faith?” (Mk. 4:40)

The disciples were fixated on the storm and became controlled by fear and doubt. They lost all sense of reason. With Jesus, the Creator of heaven and earth on board, did they really think all of them were going to die?

Jesus’ question was to bring a sense of clear thinking, not just peace, back to their panic-stricken minds. The crisis revealed to the disciples who Jesus was and how He can be trusted, even in a time of overwhelming odds. He showed how He was not a mere man, but God in human form. And as such, He has power over nature, the devil and his demons, sickness, death and even evil itself. He can simply speak and these powers must submit and obey Him because He is the King of kings and Lord of lords. Which then leads Jesus to rightly ask all of us, “Since I am Lord over all. Why are you so afraid and have no faith in me?”

All of us can have tough, direct questions for God in times of crisis. “Why God?” “Where are you?” We view situations from our human understanding and sometimes accuse God like the disciples, but then Jesus responds, “Look, I am here. Will not you trust me?” But to trust, means we need to turn from our understanding, and turn to Christ. Even when things do not make sense.

Christ is worthy of your trust. He died and rose again to show you who He is. Amid your fears, doubts and questions--trust Him. He is above all.  He is there. He is waiting. Yield to the All-Mighty Savior.

A prayer for you – Lord God, for those who are gripped by a storm, open their eyes to see you, for you are there. Speak peace to them and may they trust you, no matter what lay before them. In Jesus’ name. Amen.”