Loving Others God’s Way

“Loving others God’s way is founded upon truth, holiness, divine justice, and all that is wise, right and good.”

“Love your neighbor” or “treat others as you want to be treated” are statements we often hear from churches, activist groups or politicians when trying to gain support on hot button issues like illegal immigration, racism or other social justice causes. One billboard put up by a church said, “Love trans people.”(Photo by Brian Merrill from Pixabay.)

Where does this phrase come from? A newspaper article I read said this golden rule is found in all major religions and is part of an ancient moral code. But is there an original source? The billboard had a Bible reference on it, Matthew 22:37-40 where Jesus said, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself"

This moral code comes from God and His Word. If one has a genuine and fully committed love for God, it will be evidenced through loving others. Why? Because all people are created by God in His image, so if we say we are truly committed to Him, then we will love those whom He created.

But how does God want us to love others? There are two possible ways. God’s way or mankind’s way. Mankind’s way is an immoral love. It is based upon emotions or feelings, is situational, has no boundaries, no consistency and no foundation of right or wrong. It believes that whatever a person desires, they should not be refused. It only loves those who are acceptable to them, and those who will love them in return.

Then there is God’s way, which is a moral love. It is founded upon truth, goodness, God’s holiness, divine justice and all that is right and wise. It has standards. It sometimes denies a person what they want for their own good. It does not seek its own reward but the interests of others. The Bible says of this kind of love, “[It] is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

And this type of love is not only for our family, friends, co-workers, but it is especially demonstrated toward those who are different from us and are hard to love. Difficulty in loving can come from people rejecting us, hurting us in some way or due to our differences. And there can be differences in race, personality, ethnicity, political views and religion.

And how are we to love? As we love ourselves. This communicates a self-sacrificing love for others, rather than a self-seeking one. It is a love for others that is willing to risk it all; money, time, reputation, comfort, health and our very lives, for what will best honor God and truly help others.

Jesus both taught and modeled this kind of love. He once said, “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10:45) And this He did. He died and rose again on the cross to show His perfect love for all humanity.

And when His entire nation, including His closest followers rejected Him, He did not respond with revenge, hate, anger, or reject them. No. Instead He prayed, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” (Luke 23:34)

A prayer for you. Lord God, I pray you will help people to truly love their neighbor as themselves. Help us to love one another in truth, holiness, with forgiveness and sacrifice. And teach us to love each other for the glory of you and in genuine service for our fellow man, especially among those who are different from us and are hard to love. In Jesus’ name. Amen.