Choosing Hope in a Moment of Crisis

Over 1 million women annually make a decision to end their pregnancy, and over 60% chose to do that by getting pills through the mail, instead of driving to a clinic. And unfortunately, upwards of 30% of those women will suffer an injury because of their choice. - Clint Decker 

Olivia left home for college during the summer to pursue her dreams. It was hard for her parents to say goodbye. It was tough for her too, because she loved her dad and mom a lot. She also said goodbye to her youth pastor that had been such a big help through so many things. (Image from Freepik)

Within a few days after classes began, she met Lucas. They hit it off right away and things moved fast. Too fast, as they were spending a lot of time alone together. A few weeks after dating, she started feeling like something was not right. She panicked about what it might be. After several days of wrestling with the idea, she took “the test.”

“Oh no!”, she gasped. “This was not supposed to happen!” Oliva’s mind raced, thinking what her parents, her church and others might think. She grabbed her phone and started searching for answers. Soon she found herself staring at a screen that provided an option that would take care of everything. “No way!” she thought, “This goes against everything I have been taught.” But as she sat there, she told herself, “I have to do this. There is no other option.” Oliva filled out the online form in her dorm room, and days later she received a package in the mail. Nervously she opened it, pulled out the pills and held them in her hand while she read the instructions in how to end her pregnancy.

Last year over 1 million women like Olivia made that decision, and over 60% chose getting pills by mail, instead of driving to a clinic. Upwards of 30% of women will suffer an injury because of their choice. And college age women, like Olive, make up 66% of those ending their pregnancy.

Why do they do it? Some are not ready for parenthood, seeing how a baby would interfere with college studies, work or other pursuits. Other women are already single moms and cannot afford another child and others know they are carrying a baby who would have life-long disabilities.

For those who are pregnant and facing the same decision as Olivia, there is a better way, there is hope. The first step on this path is a woman recognizing she is carrying another life inside her. It is not just a “fetus” or a “blob of tissue”, but another human life. Pursing an ultrasound will show her viability, like a detectable heartbeat, a sign of life. It will also reveal the gestational age of the baby, to see how far along the pregnancy is, and will show the location of the baby, to see if it is developing inside or outside the uterus.

Hope is also found in adoption. There are between 1 to 2 million couples waiting to adopt. When a woman chooses not to raise her baby for whatever reason, there are numerous loving parents who stand ready to help. Have hope for yourself and hope for that little life inside you.

What about God? What does He want? God says to you, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you…” (Jer. 1:5) The Bible also declares, “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made." (Psalm 139:13-14). Since God is the Creator of all life, why would He want a doctor, mother or father to end what He created?

When a woman is facing a crisis pregnancy, it is an overwhelming experience. Yet, God tells her, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5) Why? Because when you trust Him, He promises to be with you. Choose Jesus, choose life and He will provide for all your needs. Today, if you need help call Heartbeat International at 1-800-712-4357.

A prayer for you – Lord God, I pray for young women who are facing the biggest decision of their lives, wondering if they should keep their baby or not. Help them to turn to you and find help in their hour of need. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

The 6 Revelations of Christmas

Let us lift our eyes above the “most wonderful time of the year” and the “blue Christmas” and set them upon Christ. For He was born, died and rose again to show us He is the Mighty God! - Clint Decker

What does Christmas reveal about you? Are there lots of gifts under the tree, or are there just a few or perhaps none? Will there be lots of family and friends gathered around the dinner table, or will there be empty chairs due to death, conflict or an empty nest? Christmas has a way of revealing a lot about our lives. (Image from Pixabay)

This was the case during history’s first Christmas. There were the poor shepherds. An angel appeared to them in the sky while they were watching their sheep and said, “For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.” (Luke 2:11) As the Christmas carol says, “The first No­el the an­gel did say, Was to cer­tain poor shep­herds, In fields as they lay.” These shepherds were poor, nomadic, and looked down upon in society. They were outcasts. Yet, they were given the news of Jesus’ birth then rushed to see Him in Bethlehem. And they were forever changed by it, “And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen, as it had been told them.” (Lk. 2:20)

Then there were the rich wise men. They lived nearly 1,000 miles east of Bethlehem in the location of modern-day Iran. Upon the birth of Christ, they spotted a star in the sky, then travelled in a caravan (not just three of them) on the backs of animals, following the star, to see the Christ child. The journey took around two years, so Jesus would have been toddler age when they came. The wise men were educated, skilled, influential, wealthy and well respected. When they came to Jerusalem they met with King Herod and asked, “Where is he who has been born king of the Jews? For we saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.” (Matthew 2:2) They continued on toward Bethlehem until they came to Jesus, “And going into the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh.” (Matthew 2:11-12) When the wise men returned to their land of Persia, they were forever changed.

There are six things that Christmas reveals through the shepherds and wise men. 1) God is real. When they went to see baby Jesus, they understood there was something unique about Him, that He was not just an ordinary little baby. 2) The supernatural. Rather than denying or resisting the supernatural, they saw God in it and embraced it. 3) The necessity to respond in faith. The shepherds and wise men’s money, knowledge or reputation was of no concern. It was their response of obedience and worship toward Jesus that brought them blessing. 4) There is good and evil. They saw the good in Joseph, Mary and baby Jesus. But they also saw great evil in King Herod bringing death, sorrow and pain to many. Christmas showed them the realities of life in a fallen world. 5) There is true peace. Upon hearing the message of good news, then going to worship baby Jesus, they experienced a joy and happiness unlike anything the world could ever buy.

We must resist the pressure to feel Christmas is about the gifts, how many, how nice or how expensive they are. We must resist letting conflict and the heartache of loss or tragedy to define Christmas. Let us lift our eyes above the “most wonderful time of the year” and the “blue Christmas” and set them upon Christ. For He was born, died and rose again to show us He is the Prince of Peace, the Mighty God and Wonderful Counselor. Christmas reveals that knowing and living for Christ is what is most important in life and what makes life good, regardless of being on the mountain tops or walking through valleys.

A prayer for you – Lord God, I pray you will fix our eyes above the worldly messages of Christmas. Help us to find joy, happiness and peace in you and not in the Christmas trappings that surround us. And bring new life to those who have never trusted in Jesus. In His name. Amen.

Emmanuel – Is God with You or Against You?

Emmanuel extends forgiveness for all the wrongs you have ever done. Let this Christmas be one you will never forget. Place your trust in Jesus. - Clint Decker

In the 1980s, Michael W. Smith wrote the lyrics to the Christmas song, Emmanuel. His friend and fellow musical artist, Amy Grant, recorded the song in 1983, leading to over 1-million album sales, making it a fan favorite for many years. The lyrics say, “Emmanuel, Emmanuel, Wonderful, Counselor, Lord of life, Lord of all, He is the Prince of Peace, Mighty God, Holy One.” (Image from Pixabay)

Emmanuel or Immanuel refers to baby Jesus born on Christmas Day, but what does it mean? The Old Testament part of the Bible was originally written in Hebrew. Immanuel comes from two Hebrew words. “Immanu”, meaning “with us”, and “El” meaning “God”, so Emmanuel means “God with us.” Across the 66 books of the Bible, Immanuel is only used three times. One of those is found in Isaiah 7:14, “Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel.” It is a prophecy written about Jesus, given over 700 years before His birth.

When it was originally given around the year 735 B.C (not BCE by the way), it was spoken to King Ahaz and was not good news for him. God meant it as a word of judgment for his defiance in refusing to place His trust in the Lord God for the defense and perseveration of the Kingdom of Judah. God was in essence telling Ahaz, “There is coming the birth of a baby boy, and he will be given the name Immanuel, and that boy will be sign from me to you.” In light of King Ahaz’s defiance, it meant something dramatic. It meant the boy would be a continual reminder to Ahaz that God is present and against Him. Ahaz had made Immanuel his enemy!

When Christ was born on the first Christmas day and celebrated as Immanuel, God with us, immediately He had enemies. His most ruthless, was King Herod. For he attempted to hunt down baby Jesus and slaughter Him. Instead, Jesus and His family fled, but other baby boys were killed in what historians labeled as the Massacre of the Innocents. Over the centuries many have lined up behind Herod, defiantly refusing to come and worship the Christ. We see this in the refusal of some businesses to say, “Merry Christmas”, schools in allowing valedictorians to acknowledge “Jesus” in their speeches and in the persecution of Christians in atheistic and Islamic nations around the world.

But there is another side to Immanuel, one that inspires divine Christmas hope. When God made the prophecy to Ahaz, it was a sign to the remnant of Judah who trusted in God and His promises. A sign that one day a Messiah would rise up from the tribe of Judah and be a Savior to the world. On that first Christmas in Bethlehem, between 6 and 4 B.C., Immanuel was miraculously born of a virgin and fulfilled that prophecy. And to all who trusted in Him, like Joseph, Mary, the Shepherds and the wise men, there was abounding joy and celebration! It was a day that forever changed the future of humanity.

The birth of Immanuel, the Christ-child, is a sign that God is not far off. He is near. He has come to live among us and bring His life transforming message of repentance, faith and obedience to Him.

Who is Immanuel to you this Christmas? Are you holding your fist in the face of Jesus, defiantly refusing to come and worship Him? Do not make Emmanuel your enemy. It is a dangerous path to walk.

Today, come and worship Immanuel! The Creator of heaven and earth came to live with us and preached a message of life and hope. Then He died as a sacrifice for your sins, and three days later rose again from the dead. Immanuel extends forgiveness for all the wrongs you have ever done. Let this Christmas be one you will never forget. Place your trust in Immanuel!

A prayer for you – Lord God, thank you for leaving heaven and coming to earth. I pray you will become the Savior to many this Christmas, and may your forgiveness become someone’s greatest gift. In Jesus’ name. Amen.