Contending with Whiteness and Racism

“Is the focus on whiteness the 

best way to combat racism?”

President Joe Biden said in a speech that “White supremacy… is the single most dangerous terrorist threat in our homeland.” Majority Leader of the U.S. Senate Chuck Shumer wrote on his X account “The definition of white nationalism is not a matter of opinion…it is racist down to its rotten core.” Dr. Michael Emerson, a national expert on race, told a denominational gathering of the Evangelical Covenant Church in a presentation that, “Two thirds of white practicing Christians are not followers of Christianity. They are followers of the religion of whiteness.” (Photo by Jon Tyson on Unsplash)

In recent years there has been a growing focus on “whiteness,” with its many related terms. It has trickled down from academia into politics, business, education, media and in the church.  

Why? In part, because of the very real injustices of white Americans and Europeans upon people of color. In America, the African slave trade and the treatment of Native Americans are just two glaring examples of the past.  

But can I ask, is the focus on whiteness the best way to combat racism? To answer that we have to ask, where does racism and antisemitism come from? Does it originate from institutions? Are its roots found in someone’s skin color? It is deeper. The seeds come from the curse of sin, which has dwelt within every human being since mankind’s origins. It is a curse that causes all of us to do lawless, evil and immoral things. It is written, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?”, and the Lord God says, “I the LORD search the heart and examine the mind…” (Jeremiah 17:9-10)

How government, groups and individuals treat one another is evidence of this wicked curse. And unfortunately, this has been a tragic part of human history from nearly the beginning. Every racial group and ethnicity has dark periods in the past where they senselessly oppressed and victimized others. Even today, the cries of oppressed people can still be heard throughout the world. 

There is only one answer to this inherited evil that has ravaged humanity. The solution is not found in addressing the problems of a single race, but rather what is beneath that skin. The human heart. There lay the problem! The white man’s heart must be changed. But so must the heart of the Black, African American, American Indian, Alaska Native, Asian, Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander. All of us must be changed!  

And where can that change begin? With you and me. And how can we receive that transformed heart? First, admit to God any prejudices that you have toward others. Second, be willing to accept others despite racial or cultural differences from you. Third, by faith believe in Jesus and His willingness to cleanse your heart and give you supernatural love for those whom you once rejected. Your heart problem cannot be cured through your own efforts, but only through the miraculous power of Jesus Christ. God once said, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you…” (Ezekiel 36:26)    

But then what? After transformed people are truly touched by the power of God, they begin to live differently. They show the world what the Kingdom of God is really like, for the Scriptures say, “Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne.” (Psalm 89:14) Changed people reach out and love those different from them. They forgive and make peace with others. They become a voice for God and speak up against the unjust treatment of people. They become conduits of justice advocating for the repealing of laws and policies that oppress others, and for new ones that promote the fair treatment of all. For the foundation of a more just society flows out of hearts that have been transformed by the power of Jesus and is guided by His Holy Word.        

A prayer for you – Lord God, we pray for the racial division within our nation. Let our eyes be lifted above skin color, and toward you. O Lord, cleanse our hearts from any prejudice toward others. Help us to love others different from us, and speak up against oppression, wherever it may be found. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Mom. Starting Over Again

“To some degree, maybe you feel you have failed as a mom. Whatever has happened, stop and consider God’s plan for you.”

Hannah deeply loved her husband, but was childless. This weighed so terribly upon her, that she could not eat and was visibly distraught. So much so her husband said, “Am I not more to you than ten sons?” (1 Samuel 1:8). Eventually she went to her place of worship where “she was deeply distressed and prayed to the Lord and wept bitterly.” (1 Sam. 1:10) In her desperate prayer for a baby boy she cried out to God and made a promise. If He would provide her a child Hannah stated, “I will give him to the Lord all the days of his life.” (1 Sam. 1:11). God did grant her request, and months later little Samuel was born, who grew up to become one of the greatest leaders in the history of Israel. (Photo by Jordan Whitt on Unsplash)

The story communicates the natural, maternal instinct of a woman to have a child, which she was amazingly created by God to do. This is a normal God-given desire for a woman, and when she is blessed to have children, there is tremendous joy and fulfillment. Conversely, when a woman is unable to get pregnant, or when her baby dies in the womb or after birth, there is deep sorrow.

It is written, “Children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man (or woman) who fills his quiver with them!” (Psalm 127:3-5) Motherhood is a wonderful blessing and gift from God. Whether it is one child or many. Whether biological, step, adoptive or foster care children. Whether in good health or with a disability. No matter the ups and downs, bliss or heartache, children are a blessing.

Like Hannah, if a woman is blessed to become a mother, then raising those precious little children becomes her heaven-sent mission. Unfortunately, we live in a day where the role of motherhood is diminished. Today men and women are choosing to remain single and not have children or delaying marriage. And those who do get married are putting off the start of their family, until years later, and are having fewer children than ever before. Why? Because the world we live in does not encourage the pursuit or priority of marriage and family. Rather, it encourages selfish individualism, throwing oneself into entertainment and recreation, chasing personal pleasure and putting money, career and materialism above the hard work of raising a family. 

God is our Creator and has laid out how we are to live, but all of us have fallen short. To some degree maybe you feel like you have failed as a mom. Maybe you are living with a man you are not married to and have one or more children. Perhaps you have had a series of bad relationships. You might admit how you have been putting your interests above your kids or have been verbally or physically abusive to them. 

Whatever you have done, stop and consider God’s plan for you.

If you feel like you have fallen short, come to Him with a humble spirit and admit how you have failed. No excuses. Then call out and ask God for His help to turn from your ways. He will hear and forgive. When God sent His only Son to die on a cross and rise again from the dead, He showed us that restoration is possible. Through turning from our sin and placing our faith in Christ, all things can be made new, which includes you. 

A prayer for you – Father in heaven I pray you will hear the cry of the barren woman to have a child. Hear the cry of the mom who has fallen short of your standards and give her new life in Christ. Hear the questions of the young woman who doubts if motherhood is for her. Show her how beautifully she is made and the purpose for which she was created. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Restoring Your Family

      "Let this be the start of a journey toward a new family.”

What is a woman? According to Merriam-Webster a woman is “an adult female person.” Then Webster defines female as one “having a gender identity that is opposite of a male.” How about a man? Dictionary.com says a man is “an adult male human being,” while giving male a complicated definition saying it is “having or relating to a gender identity that corresponds to a complex, variable set of social and cultural roles, traits, and behaviors assigned to people of the sex that typically produces sperm cells.” (Image by s05prodpresidente from Pixabay) 

What about marriage? The Cambridge Dictionary writes, that it is “a legally accepted relationship between two people in which they live together.” The 1828 edition of the Webster dictionary lays it out differently saying marriage is, “The act of uniting a man and woman for life.” And finally, what is the definition of family? The Collins dictionary describes it as, “A group of people who are related to each other, especially parents and their children.” While Britannica dictionary gives a more detailed understanding saying family is, “two married adults, usually a man and a woman…along with their offspring…more specifically known as a nuclear family.” 

Experts have described the family as the foundation of society, so when the family begins to be redefined, it can mean its downfall. Do you see what is happening in America? Increasing crime, poverty, mental health issues and overall cultural instability and chaos. These are all signs of trouble with the American family. Do you want to see this trend continue in your own life or family? Turn off the cultural noise. Swim upstream and consider living a different way.

The Bible is an accurate history book of mankind. It tells us how man and woman were created by God. After He created man, God said, “’It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’ So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. Then the man said, ‘This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.’ Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:18,20-25)

The God of heaven and earth created man and woman. They knew Him, and He knew them. He brought them together as husband and wife to form a family, and called them to fill the earth with their children. But then something happened. Using the freedom God granted them, they eventually rejected Him. And when they did the family that God built, began to fall apart. As they persisted in following their own ways--men, women, marriages and families all began to feel the consequences of their choices. This is where millions of families are at today. 

But the good news, is it does not have to be this way anymore. God sent His only Son to die and rise again for you and your family. He came to point out that sin in our society, and in your own heart, is the cause of this upheaval we are living through. But there is a way to be forgiven and restored. When you turn from your sin and to Jesus by faith, with all your being, you will be transformed by His miraculous power. This will be the start of you being a new man or woman, a new husband or wife, a new dad or mom, a new son or daughter. It will be the start of a journey toward a new family.

A prayer for you – Lord God, bring dads and moms, and sons and daughters, to see how they have rejected you, and how it has impacted their family. Bring them this moment, to call upon you in faith, that they might be made new. In Jesus’ name. Amen.